Self-sabotage. We all do it—and we’re all really good at it. But what causes us to do it? What are some of the ways we can stop it? It’s a strange thing we do, when we have ideas and expectations in our heads of how life is supposed to be and how it’s supposed to turn out; and when they don’t happen, we get caught up in a place of not believing we’re worthy anymore. It makes for a rough life. We think this year, we’re going to straighten all our relationships and get our fina
If you know me at all, you know that my body is always pretty much fighting something. I’ve learned to deal with it, but some days it hits harder than others and the day feels like a write-off. One such time, as I started to feel better and tried to regain energy in the following days, the thought popped into my head: when do we give ourselves grace, and when are we actually just lazy?
It’s a thin line from one to the other. While grace is about accepting your need for res